How To Date Online: Online Dating
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Incase you didn't know, a phrase like "no fats, fems or flakes" is very offensive. If nothing else, it's bad karma! But lots of ads have long lists of "no’s," from "no Asians or blacks" to "no whiners" to "no druggies." The vibe these negatives give to potential hook-ups is strong and will turn off some great potential mates.
That doesn't mean you can't explain what you're looking for, just make it more positive. How about "seeking white guys" or "like big schlongs" or "height-weight proportionate." And once you get a response, you can generally check out the other guy’s profile online to see if he meets your standards. Be positive and polite and you’ll get it back and then some. continue >>>