How To Date Online: Online Dating
by John CONTINUED FROM PAGE 1
I see it all the time... guys whose ads say they're "tops" but feature great shots of their butts. Or a guy who says he’s looking for an LTR (that’s "long-term relationship") but specifies how big a dick he requires. The problem is the guys who wrote these ads don’t have a central message to communicate. They don’t have a story to tell. Decide what your story is.
Are you a big-dicked "top" who just wants to fuck? Are you a friendly, affectionate guy open to dating? Are you a rimming pig who loves to do needlepoint? Decide what central message you want your ad to tell and then make all the pieces fit, including the headline, photos and descriptions.
Another tip is to avoid using words like "regular" or "average." They tend to send a message that you’re boring or not very attractive (like ugly girls who are often described as "nice"). Choose more positive terms such as "down-to-earth" or "centered" or "guy next door." continue >>>